What’s OK?
A safe space for young people to ask about sexual feelings, thoughts & behaviors.
I have questions about
consent.
what to do if I cross a line.
porn.
what I'm attracted to.
sexual violence.
We’re here to talk. No shame. No judgement.
It takes a lot of courage to look for information about sexual feelings, thoughts, and behaviors that feels really personal, especially if you feel or have been told you’ve crossed a line. But trust us that no matter what your question is, we’ve heard something just like it before. We’re not here to pressure, lecture, or judge you. Everyone deserves a safe, shame-free place to ask questions and feel supported. We’re a team of expert counselors ready to listen and offer guidance.
Check out some of the questions young people ask.
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What's OK?
Understanding relationships, sexual behaviors, boundaries, privacy, laws, age restrictions, and consent.
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Am I OK?
Concerned about your own sexual feelings, thoughts, behaviors, and experiences.
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Is this OK online?
Questions about technology, AI, CSAM, porn, lolicon, hentai, shotacon, and more.
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Is my friend OK?
Worried about someone else’s sexual thoughts, interests, comments and behaviors.
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Is getting help OK?
Therapy, counseling, safety planning, and other resources
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Is helping others OK?
Support for prevention and intervention.
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Are survivors OK?
How to define and identify grooming and abuse patterns, as well as give and receive support.
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Something Else
Don’t see your question someplace else? Email, chat or text our confidential helpline.
It’s OK to ask. Our free & confidential helpline is ready to answer.
Are you between 14-21 and want to talk to someone about sexual thoughts, behaviors, and interests? Our trusted and trauma-informed helpline staff are ready to help.
Do you feel alone? You don’t have to.
Explore blogs inspired by real questions youth asked our helpline.
Resources for Adults Who Care
Our adult (for 21+) helpline and website, Stop It Now!, offer resources for parents, professionals, community members, and caregivers. We provide clear, practical information about how to talk to the kids in your life about sex and consent, as well as how abuse can happen, what warning signs to look for in both adults and children, and how to help keep kids safe offline and online.